Hi Marco,
both of your servers are in stanby mode. This is usually the case when you start the servers in the wrong sequence.
I assume that your failover succeeded and now you standby is actually the primary server.
We can try this out by restarting the system again, but now start XX1main first and then XX1standby.
If we end up in the same situation then we could force one of the servers to become primary. The only problem might be if that if there is still data in the SRS queue the systems will not be in sync afterwards. IN this case I would need all the logs ASE/SRS/DR_agent from both servers to figure out what happened during the failover.
Regards,
Joachim